Showing music videos on big screen while singer sees graphics on his monitor

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I believe this follows this thread somewhat... I have always wanted to play black and white videos when DJ music is playing but I am unsure which program is best suited for this. I use Windows Media Player for DJ music so that can't be used for videos also. Any suggestions on a second program? I've also experimented with the visualizations on WMP trying to put them on the big screen (2nd monitor) but I've found that I have to drag the entire program over to the screen and expand it to full screen to get the visualizations over there. Then of course I can't use the program on my primary monitor until the song is over. Anyone know of a way to send the visualizations from WMP to a second monitor without sending the program window? I also am interested in the music video website... waiting for the re-post.