okay....I got it back....here's what I did....
when into the control panel and under display. Showed the two displays....on my second display it had a thing about extend my desktop to this disply...that box is usually checked to get the words to come up on it. Well I unchecked that box. Restarted hoster, and the screen came back up. I then went back into the display controls on control panel and enabled the desktop to go onto that screen and it came back up.