aspi and nero problem solved
 

fantastic micro. could not see my drives but now after reading this about having nero on my pc
downloaded the first link they had for ASPI drivers at ftp://ftp6.nero.com/wnaspi32.dll

Then I went to the windows folder and opend the "system32" folder. I copied the file "wnaspi32.dll" to the folder. I was asked if I wanted to overwrite the file (the old file was bigger). I said yes (the site says "No Reboot necessary") so I went back and ran "aspi_you" and there everything was... all my drives detected
and working again brill thank god for these forums :)